Member-only storyI Used to be Nice but I Gave It UpLeslie Ann Costello·Follow10 min read·Oct 1, 2019--1ShareNice woman bringing flowersMy therapist once told me that being nice was overrated. It took me awhile but I ultimately saw the light and I’ve given up being nice, thinking about being nice, or even caring whether I am nice or not. Nice has become irrelevant to me.